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Conflict in marriage is often unavoidable and can even result in a strain on the relationship if left unaddressed. But it doesn’t have to be this way.

Key Points:

  • Don’t avoid the issue.
  • Don’t stack the deck.
  • Do validate your spouse’s emotions.
  • Do accept responsibility.

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Conflict in marriage is a healthy part of overall communication. No one gets along all the time, but it’s how we deal with misunderstandings and hurt feelings that counts.

Talk About It
  1. What is your initial reaction to this topic? What jumped out at you?
  2. What is your first response in a fight? Why do you think this is your response? Explain.
  3. How can avoiding an issue make things worse? Give one example.
  4. What does bringing up the past do to communication? Explain.
  5. How does showing your spouse you understand their feelings help? How is this different than just listening?
  6. What message does accepting responsibility send to your spouse? How do you feel when your spouse admits they were wrong?
  7. Write a personal action step based on this conversation.

This topic is adapted from the Marriage365 YouTube channel.