Being assertive means you speak up for yourself in a kind way.
Talking Points:
- When you have an opinion, being assertive doesn’t mean making fun of what others like. It just means you’re honest about what you prefer that day.
- If you want to join someone’s group, instead of pouting and hoping they ask you to join, be assertive by asking if you can join their group.
- The courage to say, “No” is another way to be assertive. If you see kids doing something wrong or bullying someone, you should speak up and tell them to stop.
Discussion:
- Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
- How do you feel when your friends always get their way? How do you react when you don’t ever get your way?
- Share some of your opinions: Favorite game at recess. Favorite video game. Favorite snack. What would be a nice way to share your opinion when it is different from your friend’s opinion?
- What’s a nice way to ask if you can join a group or game others are playing? How should you respond when someone asks to join your group?
- Have you ever stood up to friends who were being naughty? What happened? Why was it important to stand up for what’s right?
- Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?
