Money can be a sticky subject in any marriage, but in a blended family it can really blow things up.

Talking Points:

  • Question #1: Do we want to pool our money or keep it separate?
  • Question #2: What expenses should be shared and how will they be paid?
  • Question #3: Should we create a shared budget?
Discussion:
  1. Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
  2. Describe how your money conversations have gone so far. What has been productive? What has been challenging? Explain.
  3. What do you need to guard against so money doesn’t bring trouble into your family? Explain.
  4. Which of the three questions above is the easiest for you to answer? Which is hardest? Explain.
  5. How can you work against allowing the comparison game to enter into your money conversations?
  6. What other conversations do you need to have regarding money?
  7. Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?

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