It is useless to compare ourselves to others. Find out why here.

Talking Points:

  • Being successful doesn’t mean you have to be better than everyone else at what you do. It simply means that you are making a good living, striving for excellence, and feeling that what you do is meaningful.
  • It’s unrealistic to compare yourself to all the good you see in another person and not realize that they may have a lot of bad things going on in their lives as well. You cannot separate someone’s public side from their private side.
  • Be as successful as you can be with the talent and ability you already possess. Comparing yourself to only the public side you see in others is just a waste of time. Work, instead, on being a better person.
Discussion:
  1. Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
  2. Out of everyone in the world, who do you wish you could be? Why?
  3. What three different things would you take from three individual people you admire? Why?
  4. Why do people compare themselves to others?
  5. How would you define success? Would you consider yourself successful? Why or why not?
  6. Do you think other people are envious of your life? Why or why not?
  7. What steps can you take to make your life better?
  8. Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?