Tension between your wife and mother can be uncomfortable, but you need to face it head on.
Talking Points:
- When you are young, your mom is the number one woman in your life. She raised you and provided for you. But your wife is now the number one woman in your life. You chose her to now be the emotional and physical support system in your life.
- This switch in roles for your mom can cause some natural tension for everyone. It’s hard for a parent to give up their child. They may feel at times that your wife can’t care for you as well as they can.
- Let them know the race is over. Tell your wife that she is the sole winner of your heart and the number one woman in your life. Tell yourself the same. If you find yourself siding with something your mother says, just because she is your mom, reevaluate.
Discussion:
- Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
- Why is there a natural tension between mothers and wives? How have your actions created unnecessary tension between your mom and wife in the past?
- Have you ever encountered a situation where you felt like you had to pick a side between your mother and wife? Explain.
- What are some practical ways you can set boundaries within the moments of tension between your wife and your mother?
- Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?
