From the Podcast:
Your teen’s emotional state can sometimes feel like you’re dealing with weapons of mass destruction! Learn how to manage your teenager’s unhealthy behaviors.
Talking Points:
- “Whatever you permit you promote.” When our children act out and we let them get away with negative behaviors, the message we are unintentionally sending is that the behavior is acceptable.
- While some behaviors will require more severe consequences, most can be redirected easily. When your teen is disrespectful, respond calmly and encourage them to take a moment to gather themselves and come back to you with appropriate behaviors.
Discussion:
- Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
- On a scale from 1-10, how permissible of a parent do you think you are? Why do you rate yourself this way?
- Do you think others would agree with your self-assessment? Why or why not?
- In what areas do you feel like you might be too lax with your kids? How do you know?
- Why is it hard for you to follow through with consequences at times?
- What are some responses you could have ready ahead of time for when your child is whining or being manipulative or disrespectful?
- Do you feel you model the type of behavior you desire from your child? What changes can you make to be a stronger example of what will set them up for success in life?
- Do you have a friend or relative who is a great example of squelching inappropriate behavior? What are they doing to course correct their child?
- Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?
