For our last core virtue we are talking about something that is often times very hard to give: forgiveness!
Talking Points:
- Forgiveness is “extending grace when it’s not expected.” Forgiveness is a gift that you give to someone whether they’ve asked for it or deserve it.
- Without forgiveness, people begin to form grudges and grudges become toxic and unhealthy both physically and mentally.
- Here are the four things you can give to help you be more forgiving:
- Respect.
- Acceptance.
- Love.
- Self Control.
Discussion:
- Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
- Share a time you were forgiven when it was not deserved?
- Share a time you chose to forgive someone. Why did you choose to do that?
- Who do you think of when you hear the word “forgiveness”? Why?
- How have you seen grudges ruin someone’s life. How have grudges ruined you in the past?
- How can each of the four tips help you to learn to forgive?
- Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?