Nearly 30% of young adults have experienced violence in a romantic relationship. Here's how to beat the statistic.

Talking Points:

  • Pay attention to the warning signs, and be willing to admit you’re in an abusive relationship.
  • Build your army of supporters, and stop spending time with the abuser.
  • Plan a safe breakup, and be sure to enlist your army for support.
  • Find some resources to help you out, or contact a professional.
Discussion:
  1. Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
  2. Have you ever been in an abusive relationship? How long did it take for you to admit it? What were the warning signs?
  3. Are you currently in a bad relationship? Explain. Why do you choose to stay? What needs to happen to get you to leave?
  4. What would feel like a “safe breakup” to you? What parts of a plan would feel unsafe to you?
  5. Make a list of your “army of supporters”. Who is at the top of the list? On a scale of 1-10, how easy is it to talk to those people about your abusive relationship?
  6. Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?