As we get older, passions may wane and marriage can become routine. But it’s worth it to keep the romantic flame kindled.
Talking Points:
- Don’t give up on romance. You are never too old to enjoy an exciting romantic life with your spouse.
- Recalibrate from a kid-centered marriage. Be intentional with time spent together. Be creative!
- Strong emotional intimacy leads to strong physical intimacy. It’s so much easier to be vulnerable and affectionate with someone when you feel safe and connected on an emotional level.
- Get away on occasion and focus on each other without the distractions of your usual routine and responsibilities.
Discussion:
- Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
- What is one of your favorite romantic memories from when you and your spouse were first together? What is a simple act of love your spouse does on a regular basis that you find romantic?
- What surprised you about keeping the romance alive once the kids came along? What are some things you did to make sure you still focused on your marriage? How have you transitioned to being empty nesters? Would you say at this time in your life it is easier to keep the romance alive? Why or why not?
- Did you grow up with parents who made their marriage a high priority? What habits and traditions of your parents have you tried to maintain in your marriage? What have you tried to do differently?
- What would be your dream vacation with your spouse? Where would you want to go for a quick weekend getaway? What about a fun day trip?
- Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?
