Are your New Year’s resolutions off to a rough start? Check out these practical methods for getting back on track with your goals, big or small.

The New Year is officially in full swing, but your resolutions aren’t. We get it—life happens, and your ambition has faded. Well, first off, there’s nothing wrong with letting a goal go if it’s not essential to your well-being. That said, working through the challenge of creating new habits and keeping promises to yourself can be incredibly rewarding and formative. Whether you wanted to learn a whole new language or simply water your plants more often, if your goals matter to you, you can get back on track. Here are some practical ways to do so!

Explore What’s Not Working

First, take a step back and figure out why you veered off track. Was your goal unrealistic? Did life throw something unexpected at you? Were you not prepared to invest the necessary effort?

Asking these questions helps you figure out what’s holding you back and decide what needs to change. Without this clarity, you’ll probably end up repeating the same patterns.

Create a Plan To Address the Issue

Once you’ve pinpointed the problem, it’s time to strategize. Break your goal into smaller, manageable steps. For example, if you fell behind on saving money, start with creating a weekly savings plan instead of trying to tackle a giant monthly amount. Make this plan practical—something you can stick to, even on your busiest days.

Take It Slow and Be Forgiving

You won’t bounce back overnight, and that’s okay. The key is to take consistent steps each day. Give yourself the grace to move at a comfortable pace. Slip-ups will happen, but instead of beating yourself up, focus on the results so far. Forgiving yourself for mistakes will motivate you to keep making progress, even if it’s slow.

Find Ways To Feel More Confident

Confidence fuels action. To regain it, celebrate small wins along the way. Completed your first workout after weeks off? Celebrate it! Hit a milestone on your new plan? Treat yourself. Surround yourself with positive reinforcements that boost your confidence.

Additionally, take steps to feel great about yourself, mentally and physically! Stick to your skincare routine, revamp your wardrobe, and stay active. Even something as simple as wearing jewelry to manifest your goals can make you feel more assured and excited about your goals. Just focus on making small changes that help you feel incredible and stoked about growth.

Create Accountability for Yourself

Accountability keeps you on track, so share your goals with someone you trust, like a friend or family member. You could also join a community of people aiming for similar achievements. For instance, if you’re learning a language, enroll in a class. Having people around you who know what you’re striving for and can cheer you on is incredibly motivating.

Getting back on track with your goals isn’t about perfection; it’s about persistence. These practical methods will help you get there, even if it’s later than you wanted. Keep going—you’ve got this!

Talk About It:
  1. What goals do you currently have for yourself, and what have you pushed to the side?
  2. What do you think is your biggest challenge when it comes to following through on your goals?
  3. Think about a time when you successfully committed to a goal. What did you do right?
  4. What makes you feel the most confident in yourself, and how can you integrate those things into your routine more often?
  5. If you prefer to keep your goals private, how can you create accountability for yourself?