In this lesson we lay the groundwork for great leadership by discussing 10 basic social skills every student leader will need.

Talking Points:

  • Skill #1: Expand your circle and include others.
  • Skill #2: Don’t be self-absorbed
  • Skill #3: Be empathetic.
  • Skill #4: Know when to be serious.
  • Skill #5: Be genuine.
  • Skill #6: Be approachable.
  • Skill #7: Don’t be a gossip.
  • Skill #8: Don’t project stereotypes.
  • Skill #9: Don’t be weird.
  • Skill #10: Get out of your comfort zone.
Discussion:
  1. Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
  2. List the 10 social skills from the video. Which ones are your top 3? Which ones are your bottom 3?
  3. For each social skill, write the name of a student leader who best exemplifies that skill.
  4. What can you do personally to grow in your bottom 3 social skills? Write a personal action step.
  5. What are some other social skills that can benefit high school leaders? Make a list.
  6. Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?