Getting to the next level in your life isn't always about the habits you start doing. Sometimes success waits on what you stop doing.

Talking Points:

  • Stop people-pleasing. Constantly working for the approval of others keeps you from telling the truth to anyone – and that spells disaster for your future goals. 
  • Stop making excuses. Pointing fingers and playing the victim doesn’t fool anyone… and it only hurts YOU in the long run. 
  • Stop thinking small. Without a vision you’ll die a slow, steady death – at work, at home, and everywhere.
Discussion:
  1. Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
  2. Why do you think people-pleasing can hold you back from success? Give an example.
  3. How does making excuses come back to hurt you in the long run? Give an example.
  4. What’s your vision for your life 5 years from now? 10 years? Paint a picture with your words. Do you think it’s a big enough vision?
  5. Which of these three behaviors do you struggle with most? Why?
  6. Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?