It seems like divorce is becoming more and more common. The women of The Experts discuss some of the biggest mistakes couples make before getting married and offer advice on how to avoid them.
Talking Points:
- While they are preparing to create a life with someone, they simply do not know as much as they should before making that commitment.
- Having meaningful conversations about things like expectations, in-laws, and daily responsibilities are important to the vetting process. If you don’t agree on much while dating, you won’t agree on much in marriage.
- Going into marriage with commitment is also key as life will likely throw some curve balls that challenge your relationship.
Discussion:
- Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
- What are some of the most difficult conversations to have with someone you are dating? Why are they difficult?
- Do you think it is ever “too late” to find out more about someone you plan to marry? Explain.
- If you have struggled to ask tough questions, what has held you back the most? What can you do to overcome these difficulties?
- How can having an open line of communication make unforeseen changes or hardships easier to handle?
- Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?
This topic is adapted from the YourTango YouTube channel.