Narcissism isn’t just a personality type that shows up in advice columns; it’s actually a set of traits classified and studied by psychologists.
Talking Points:
- Narcissism is an inflated, grandiose self-image. To varying degrees, narcissists feel that they are more important than other people.
- “Grandiose” narcissism is a personality trait, characterized by extroversion, dominance and attention-seeking.
- “Vulnerable” narcissists are often quiet and easily threatened, with a strong sense of entitlement.
- Narcissistic personality disorder is narcissism taken to the extreme, and it affects 1- 2% of adult Americans. Traits include a grandiose view of oneself, problems with empathy, a sense of entitlement, and a need for admiration or attention.
Discussion:
- Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
- How can you spot a narcissist? Make a list of actions or traits.
- Consider current culture. Do you think people tend more towards grandiose or vulnerable narcissism? Defend your answer.
- Why is narcissism toxic to relationships? How have you experienced this?
- Describe unhealthy parenting behaviors that can contribute to each type of narcissistic tendencies?
- Have you ever witnessed a narcissist take steps to change? If so, what triggered action?
- Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?