Don’t let sibling rivalry get in the way of being good to others in your family.
Talking Points:
- Younger siblings: know the line when it comes to older siblings. In fact, you probably already know where the line is, don’t you? The point is, don’t make a habit of being purposefully annoying just because you think it’s fun to pester your older sibling. Dial it back a bit.
- Older siblings: recognize that your younger siblings are seeking your approval. They look to you as an example, they care about what you think, and what you model for them will affect them as they grow up and follow in your footsteps.
- Parents, it’s important to build into your family culture this truth: family is family no matter what. Start when your kids are young, and never let up. No matter their ages, your kids need to know that they are loved, supported, and secure with their family.
Discussion:
- Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
- Parents: do you have siblings? If so, what was your relationship like with them like growing up?
- Kids: on average, how often does your sibling drive you up the wall?
- Why do you think sibling rivalry is a thing? What are some ways siblings fight?
- Younger siblings: what can you do to be less of a pain toward your older siblings?
- Older siblings: how can you be a better big brother or sister to your younger siblings?
- Parents: who of your friends from junior high or high school are still good friends of yours today? What happened to those relationships over time? How is this a learning area for your kids?
- How can your family get better and better at having a strong family culture of loyalty? List some practical examples.
- Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?
