When your kid is heartbroken over friend drama it can be hard to know how to react as parents. Keep these tips in mind so you're ready for it!
Talking Points:
- Tip #1: Don’t overreact. Drama happens. Kids have short memories and will get over this!
- Tip #2: Don’t pile on. They’re already feeling rejection from their friends; don’t add to it.
- Tip #3: Listen with empathy. Don’t offer solutions before your kid feels heard and loved.
- Tip #4: Share your own story. Remind your kid that you’ve been there before and it hurts.
- Tip #5: Do something fun as a family. Remind your kid that their best “friend group” is there to stay.
Discussion:
- Initial reactions to this topic? What jumped out at you?
- What’s your typical reaction when your kids are sad about something with friends?
- When it comes to the drama, are you more or less worried about how your kid contributes to the issues? Explain.
- How have you been guilty of passing over your kid’s feelings and going right to a lecture? What would your kids say about your typical response?
- How do you need to improve in the way you empathize with your kids’ sadness?
- What are some fun activities you can do as a family? How can you improve your family dynamic to make it a safe and fun place for your kids?
- Is there a step you need to take based on today’s topic?